Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDs)
is a very touchy subject for my family.
On December 6, 2003, my first nephew was born. He was such a happy and cheerful baby. He loved to laugh and smile whenever he saw a
new face. The whole family had grown to
adore him, and everyone had a special bond with him. There was a special little face that he would
make whenever something did not go quite his way. He would poke out his bottom lip and just
pout. We all thought that was adorable,
and would sometimes just make him upset just to see “the look.” On March 5, 2004, my little bundle of joy was
feed, changed and put to bed as usual.
The next morning when my sister in law went to wake him up she noticed
that his lips were blue, and he was not moving.
My brother jumped into his car without hesitation and rushed to the
hospital. He said the police was right
behind him with the sirens on, but he did not stop. When they got to the hospital the police saw
what was happening and told my brother to just go into the hospital. Once everyone arrived the doctor came out and
informed us that everything was going to be alright, and there was a ninety
percent chance that he would make it. We
were all at ease. Ten minutes later, the
doctor that told us that returned with another doctor. He told us that the doctor was new and got the
message mixed up, and they were so sorry.
Our baby would not live long and invited us back to say our good byes. That was the hardest day ever for me, until
ten years later when I would have to say goodbye to my own child.
SIDS normally occurs to a child who
is under one years of age. It has
accounted for nearly forty percent of the deaths in the US in 1995. SIDS is more common to occur in the colder
months. In Northern Hemisphere the January
rate is double the July rate. The two
most intriguing factors about SIDS are that: it occurs during an infant’s
sleep, and it is most common from two to four months of age. For unknown reasons, SIDS is higher in males
than females at a ratio of 1:5. Unfortunately,
some babies are at a higher risk factor than others. These are babies that have the following
characteristics: premature, infants whose mother smoked or took illegal drugs,
infants who sleep on their stomachs, infants who were not breastfeed, infants
whose mother had little or no prenatal care, siblings of a previous SIDS baby
(Sears 13-16).
Finally, there is a clue, but not a
cure to help reduce the number of SIDS. The
book entitled “SIDS a Parent’s Guide to Understanding and Preventing Sudden
Infant Death Syndrome” by William Sears, M.D. has provided some helpful
tips: When your baby is ready for sleep,
place them on their back or their side.
Do not smoke or use any illegal drugs around your baby prenatal or
postnatal. Don’t overwrap your baby or
overlap your baby’s sleeping environment.
Actually, with the latest research there should be nothing in the crib
with your baby besides a blanket and it has to be folded all the way down and
tucked under the mattress. Seek medical
attention early if your baby is not feeling well, and be aware that your baby
may need less bedding and clothing when they are sick. These are not guaranteed to prevent SIDS, but
they are helpful tips that will help in some way (Sears 28).
Reference
Sears, William. (1995). SIDS a Parent’s Guide to
Understanding and Preventing Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. Little Brown and
Company: New York.
Tymeshia,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your family's loss. I hope that over time you have found joy in remembering those special times with him.
Sandra